BAR GIRL SCAM / IN PATTAYA

 

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DON’T FALL IN LOVE WITH THE FIRST BAR-GIRL YOU MEET – THAT COULD BE THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF YOU’RE LIFE.

 

BARGIRL SCAM IN A NUTSHELL
  • GET YOU INTO THE BAR
  • DEVELOP A SHORT TERM RELATIONSHIP
  • DEVELOP A LONG TERM / LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP
  • GET YOU TO SPONSOR HER WHILE YOU AWAY
  • DUMP YOU WHEN THE MONEY STOPS

 

HOW TO MAKE LIFE COMPLICATED

Aussies, Brits and Yanks seem to be the worst for falling for Thai girls, they seem to be so gullible and susceptible to the charms and lies of Thai girls, inexperienced western men, who come to Pattaya for the first time, they are custom made for a experienced Bar girl and will have you wrapped around their little finger in no time flat, before you know it, the heart strings are attached and it gets complicated.

 

AN OLD GAME

You are a new player in an old game, and the deck is stacked against you, you meet a bargirl, you like her, spend some time together, have lots of fun and sex, you want to know more about her, she gives you the old sob story about how poor she is, you feel sorry for her and her circumstances and develop a soft spot for her and before you know it, you are sending her money from home.

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WTF JUST HAPPENED?

You just got schooled with a lesson straight out of the bargirl play book, but don’t worry, you’re not alone, it happens to thousands of guys every year, year after year, the same old story, But wait there’s more…

While you’re at home with your nose to the grindstone, she’s working at the bar, having a good time, partying, drinking and going with customers, and hoping to find another guy just like you who will send her money after he goes back home to work.

LINKBAR-GIRLS AND BEACH-GIRLS

 

DON’T BE AN IDIOT

I know guys that are not well off, have a low paying job back home, but have made the mistake of falling for the first bargirl they meet on their first trip to Pattaya, then they go home after their holiday, go back to work and send as much money as they can spare to the bar girl every month.

 

DON’T BE THIS DUMB ASS

Here’s the funny part, because they send all their money to a bar girl, they can’t afford the next holiday with their mates in 6 months time, so while they’re mates are out having a good time in Pattaya, our buffalo is sitting at home eating his hearts out while his bargirl is sleeping around, maybe with his friends, trust me, it happens a lot, but not all Pattaya bar girls, have a sponsor, some girls have more than 1 sponsor and the really good ones have many sponsors.

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WHAT’S A SPONSOR?

A sponsor is the same as a buffalo, how so you ask? A Thai girl explained it to me one time, pretty simply, Falungs (white skinned westerners) are like buffalo’s, all you need is a ring through their nose and you can lead a buffalo anywhere and it will do all the hard work for you, of course, the poor old buffalo is a beast of burden and they do all the hard work, but when they get to old, they get eaten.

A sponsor is a buffalo, he is a pretend boyfriend, and a bar girls dream come true, that is, he is a guy who lives in his own country and sends money to a bargirl regularly, not to sleep with other men (Ha Ha, love that one) while he is away working, they pretend they are boyfriend / girlfriend over the phone, and every now and again, he takes a holiday to Pattaya, where he spends a week or so with his loyal bargirl and has a good time, then goes home again and repeats this process over and over.

A sponsor lives in a fantasy world where he really believes he is in a real relationship, and the girl he is sponsoring, really loves him, many girls in Soi 6 have sponsors or multiple sponsors.

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SPONSORS ARE SUCKERS!

In reality, she may have a Thai boyfriend or childhood sweetheart, still goes short time with customers just for fun and has several guys sending her money all the time and she keeps them on a revolving roster making sure that their holiday times in Thailand never overlap and if they do, she will have some excuse why she can’t meet with the less wealthy of the two.

Some guys send a little bit of money, some send a lot, but one thing is for certain, if you want loyalty, then buy a dog, because you will never get it from a bargirl, some guys will buy the bargirl a motor bike, some will buy a car, but the holy grail is to get your buffalo, I mean sponsor, to buy you a house or two.

The relationship will only last until the money stops coming in, once it stops, the buffalo is discarded.

 

BUT MY GIRL IS DIFFERENT

You hear that so much from guys that have gone ga ga over a bargirl, I’m not really sure what it means, but those who say it are sincere and cannot be reasoned with about the morals of their new true love, these are the guys who will end up sending money to their bargirl and some will go on to become full blown sponsors and most times, it will end in heartache and tears and an empty bank account.

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STOPPING THE HEARTACHE

Some men will pay any amount of money to make the heartache stop, but it is only prolonging the inevitable, because the only thing that will comfort a bargirl is cold hard cash. Stop paying her money and see how long the relationship lasts.

I know foreign men in Pattaya who have lost everything to a Thai woman, they give and give until there is nothing left, they have been bleed dry and have essentially traded places with the Thai, now they live in poverty and the Thai has the house, money and car, snap out of it – don’t be a fool.

 

THEY LOVE YOU’RE MONEY – NOT YOU

When you first come to Pattaya, it a whole different world from what you know back home, everything is cheap, everything is easy and suddenly you become a handsome man! That’s right, no matter how dog butt ugly you are, you are going to have attractive Thai girls try and lure you into their traps.

Don’t believe it, you know you are not handsome as flattering as it sounds, you’re just being sized up to see how gullible you are, to see if you’re a good candidate for a financial fleecing.

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GETTING HOOKED BY HOOKER’S

I‘ve seen Thai girls simulating casting a imaginary fishing line at punters and try to wind them into the bar, and land them, they will flirt outrageously with anyone who looks twice and is tempted to go have a drink with them, that’s what they do, they are fishing, hooking, casting a net, and you are the catch of the day. When you spend some time with Thai girls, a couple thing become apparent –

  • Thai girls are fun
  • Thai girls are attractive
  • Thai girls are easy going
  • Thai girls are amusing with a good sense of humor
  • Thai girls like fast sex

And that is why guys fall for Thai girls in record time flat, they are just so easy to like, and a whirlwind romance can happen in a very short time.

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CONCLUSION

So don’t be a sucker or a buffalo, play the field and play to win by keeping your heart out of it if you can.

THE GOLDEN RULE – KEEP YOUR EMOTIONS AND YOUR FINANCES SEPARATE – HAVE FUN.

 

 

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